They are not easy 
can make one queasy.

Plans go haywire
but for loved ones one can be on fire.

A smiling face on the surface
within it’s a grim face.

Some are born with it
some in plans magically fit.

You sweat
you just can’t fret.

Balancing is key
when it’s the family alley.

Friendships and bonds can take a toll
all is good when one is on a roll.

O! Adjustments are great 
when you do it all from your heart.